It’s not the thing.  

It’s your energy.  

It’s THE energy you bring to it.  

It’s YOUR energy around the thing that you bring to the thing that matters.  

It doesn’t matter what the thing is.  

It IS your energy you bring to IT that matters.  

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The anxiety before. The bitterness during it. The pissyness after it. The anger because of it. The control during it. Even the anticipation. The excitement. The unknown. The assumption. The uneasiness. The lack. The eager. Good. Bad. Ugly. Knowing or Not. Assuming or Unjust. 

Whatever you bring. It becomes.  

And believe it or not. You get to control that.  

You might have to fight like hell to control it. To dial it up or down or neutralize it.

But you get to control it. You get to decide.  

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The problem is - We typically don’t. 

We let the feelings pull the trigger and our emotions get to act for us And the thing gets hijacked by a version of us that doesn’t really exist. 

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We all have a thing. 

What energy are you bringing to yours?

- Robyn Tanner